Here Are 5 Things You Can Do Yourself to Make Your Anxiety Less Severe

Exercise – Meditation – Caffeine – Sleep – Therapy

When you have an anxiety disorder, your anxiety can range from a minor nuisance to extremely debilitating on a day-to-day basis. However, developing a well-rounded approach to self-care can help reduce the number of bad days you experience or – at least – decrease the severity of the worst days. Below are five, scientifically-backed ways that can help manage your anxiety. This list is by no means comprehensive, but it should provide a good starting place for anyone wanting to improve his/her self-care.

  1. Exercise

Everyone knows that exercising helps you attain and maintain good physical health, but did you know that a consistent exercise routine can also help with anxiety1? In particular, aerobic exercise (e.g., running, swimming, walking2) can decrease both state (i.e., how you feel now) and trait (i.e., how you feel on a regular basis) anxiety3. Evidence suggests that developing a consistent routine where one exercises for 20 min or more per session provides the strongest benefits for anxiety. In fact, when used in such a way, exercise has been found to be so effective at helping with anxiety that some have suggested that it could serve as a clinical intervention and may even help prevent the development of anxiety disorders4. Thus, including a steady exercise routine as a part of your self-care can help to manage your anxiety over a long period of time. Before starting an exercise routine, consult with a medical professional to ensure that you are healthy enough for exercise and that you choose the exercise type that best fits your lifestyle.

  1. Mindfulness Meditation

Mindfulness, or the practice of actively and non-judgmentally attending to one’s current experiences, has been en vogue for at least the past 20 years, and you have probably heard any number of claims regarding what mindfulness can do for you. Though perhaps overhyped in popular media, a significant body of research has found that mindfulness based techniques, including meditation, seem to reduce anxiety5, including even cases involving generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) and panic disorder6-8. What makes mindfulness particularly exciting for the treatment of anxiety is that individuals can implement and maintain these techniques at home without the need for a therapist9-10. If you are interested in learning more about mindfulness and how to use it as a part of your self-care, has written a number of articles on how mindfulness helps anxiety and how to get started on a meditation routine. In addition, both Android and iOS now have hundreds of free apps that can help introduce you to mindfulness meditation. For an additional guide, Lifehacker has a fantastic overview of mindfulness for beginners.

  1. Limiting Caffeine Intake

As an avid coffee drinker, I get quite defensive when anyone suggests I reduce my caffeine intake. However, as an individual with an anxiety disorder, I do need to keep an eye on how much of the drug I consume. Caffeine increases autonomic nervous system activation associated with wakefulness as well as fight-or-flight behaviors11. In other words, caffeine makes you more ready to act – something quite beneficial early on a Monday morning. However, adding caffeine to an anxiety disorder can produce bad results. Evidence suggests that caffeine can increase anxiety on its own12-13, and anxious individuals seem particularly vulnerable to this effect14. Consequently, if you experience elevated anxiety on a regular basis, then you want to monitor and/or reduce your caffeine intake. I am not advocating completely abstaining from caffeine (I certainly don’t), but good self-care for anxiety includes making sure that you don’t overdo it.

  1. Sleep

Telling someone who suffers from chronic anxiety to get plenty of sleep is somewhat akin to telling someone with a broken leg to “walk it off.” Anxiety disorders themselves are known to cause poor sleep quality15. Despite this fact, research has uncovered a number of techniques that increase your chances of getting a good night’s sleep, and any good self-care routine should include them. Scientists refer to your habits before sleep as your “sleep hygiene,” and good sleep hygiene includes maintaining a consistent sleep/wake cycle (i.e., going to bed and waking up at consistent times), quenching any thirst before bed, and reducing the amount of environmental noise in the bedroom16. You also want to decrease the amount of “cognitive activity” in the hours leading up to sleep17. For example, when working hard on a project for work or school, try to stop working at least an hour before going to sleep to let your brain “wind down” before bed. Reducing alcohol and tobacco use before bed can improve sleep quality as well18. In addition, all of the above self-care techniques, limiting caffeine intake19, practicing mindfulness20, and maintaining a good exercise routine21, help improve sleep.

  1. Consider Going to Therapy

When people talk about self-care, they typically think only of things that they can do on their own to take care of themselves. However, perhaps one of the best ways to take care of yourself when you experience chronic anxiety is to see a therapist. Over the past 40 years, psychologists have developed a substantial number of truly effective techniques to help treat anxiety, particularly in the realm of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). A remarkable body of research has shown these approaches provide substantial benefits for individuals with anxiety disorders22-23, and this field continues to develop and improve. Beginning therapy can be a daunting task, especially if you have never been to therapy before or you have done therapy in the past with limited success. To help with this process, we recently published an article that describes the process of finding a good therapist, which highlights a number of sources to get you started.

Combined, the above suggestions provide a solid starting point for any self-care routine. For many sufferers, managing anxiety is a lifelong process, but through diligent research, we now have a better understanding of what techniques and approaches individuals can use to improve their experience of anxiety.